2021.12.08 16:37 Rare-Manufacturer-18 Friends with ex? Me (M19) and ex (F18)
Me (M19) and my ex (F18) of just under 2 years broke up about a week ago, I want to say that it was mutual but she brought up her concerns, I put on a brave front and I suggested that maybe we should break up I know what she needed and that was space and time and I wanted to give it to her. She took me up on the offer and from what I gathered we still have feelings and care for each other but we came to the conclusion that it wouldn't work in the long run as of right now. And as of today we are in no contact but the day of the break up we had a long talk and we both decided that we should still be friends after we had some time apart. I made the stupid mistake of reaching out yesterday thinking I would be okay with being friends then it call came back at once. I told her later that day that I'm sorry I reached out and I hope I didn't complicate anything and she reassured me that it was okay and it wouldn't effect anything for the future of the two of us and told me to reach out again when I'm certain. I would like to have her as a friend mainly because she's genuinely good person and pleasant to be around. I know those feelings are mutual, before we started dating we hung out a lot and I would like that back in a sense.
I told her that I wouldn't ask her out again because two-ish months prior we had a hiccup and split up for no longer then a day, I was the one who suggested we get back together and looking back on it now I feel like this is what caused the present events to occur. I didn't give her time distance herself from me and we ended up rushing back into things. She said from that point on she didn't really feel the same and was more or less forcing herself to try at that point but wanted to keep trying until it worked, she told me that breaking up would be the best option moving forward because staying together could make things worse. But that being said I still care for her well being and wish her the best, she told me the same. We ended on really good terms, very amicable I would say and I feel like that being the case would make it easier to establish a friendship in the future.
Has anyone ever had success with staying friends with an ex? Is it something I should even consider?
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2021.12.08 16:37 flowerdough Taking off work sick to ... work
I keep ending up taking off days as sick leave just to work.
My job is hard and even when I was healthy it pushed me absolutely to my limits. It has a history of breaking people down physically, mentally. I'm pretty good at it and have done it for years so I was doing quite well and receiving high praise...before fibro, before lupus. Now I feel like I am always behind and constantly disappointing people. It is hard for my mental health. I have always been an incredibly responsible person and high performer. Now, I suck.
The days off give me some small respite. I can clear out my email and people will be less annoyed with me. But I know this is ridiculous, to take time off sick just to catch up on work. I just can't seem to stop doing it. It buys me time and decreases my stress since I can finally catch up without having to worry about additional, new work.
I feel like nobody cares about my disability. They are done hearing about it and I'm done talking about it. When people ask how I am I just say I'm ok and flip it back on them.
Also my hair is all falling out and I am desperately trying to fix it. I'm working my ass off to mitigate symptoms: exercise 4x a week, meditation 3x a week, physical therapy, completely overhauled my diet. But the reality is no matter what I do you can't escape fibro and lupus. It's not going anywhere.
I have FMLA protection (in the US) but I still feel that my boss may act negatively towards me. She can't fire/discipline me for disability reasons so she has backed off considerably. I honestly really like her as a person, but with my disability she has become frequently shorter and more angry with me.
I have lupus/fibro and right now it's absolutely uncontrolled. My rheumatologist is impossible to get in with, and there are no other rheums in my area. He's mostly good too, I don't want to switch. He prescribed me gabapentin months ago, but I followed up since side effects were impossible. I cannot be on gabapentin. Since then, radio silence and I assume he'll try to give me Lyrica next appointment which I 0% want.
I am limping towards the finish line, I plan to put in notice for this job in summer when some of my stuff will be vested. Then I will just focus on being a student and mitigating my condition. But goddamn, working with these conditions is near impossible. I'm sure everyone here is experiencing similar (or has already)
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2021.12.08 16:37 Rainbow_catgacha Selling wg set without boots
2021.12.08 16:37 DuchessJulietDG Google Tells Specific Apps to Disclose Location Gathering or Be Removed
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2021.12.08 16:37 3becbec Celeste is here
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2021.12.08 16:37 Unotwotrois Finally found it in GameStop!
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2021.12.08 16:37 Vagab0ndiumRexx games kinda sucked this year (and ubisoft too)
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2021.12.08 16:37 MAXBGC If I hear "It's all in this note one more time" i'll quit
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2021.12.08 16:37 Volmag Overcame a massive hurdle last night
I was addicted to injecting crystal meth for 6 years. I have been clean for 2 years as of December 1st. I had someone at the house I'm staying at offer me a fully prepped syringe. I could have done it without anyone ever knowing.
I said no.
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2021.12.08 16:37 dance_apoptosistic He that dippeth his hand with me in the dish, the same shall give me Omicron.
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2021.12.08 16:37 minerX135 Started up the old wood fire stove, cold nights are coming
2021.12.08 16:37 Highfro [USA][H] GBA Game Lot, GameCube Game Lot, Nomad with Box, HG SS Big Box, More [W] Paypal
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Gameboy Advance Game Lot - $360 https://i.imgur.com/7MtcuL0.jpg
GameCube Game Lot - $280 https://i.imgur.com/GC8hYMw.jpg
HG SS Big Boxes - $420 (will sell boxes without games for $300) https://imgur.com/a/IlMMfiJ/
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2021.12.08 16:37 Post-YouTube Video: How Biden showed Putin weakness FROM THE BEGINNING
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2021.12.08 16:37 Bakabridget Cell getting bullied while still a larva
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